Rethinking New Year’s: A Seasonal Approach to Change

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A close friend recently shared with me, “Everyone keeps asking about my New Year’s resolution, and I don’t have one—so now I feel stressed.”

Personal growth matters, of course. But when does striving for improvement quietly turn into unnecessary pressure?

This is what I shared with her:

“Whether or not you have a New Year’s resolution, it’s incredibly hard to chase the right goal at the wrong time.”

Take a look outside. What are the trees doing? What about the animals?

Are they rushing into fresh beginnings—or are they resting, dormant, and conserving energy?

Honestly, I feel that same exhaustion too, even when I don’t consciously register it.

For years, I forced myself through January—gripping tightly to new routines that rarely lasted—while my body was begging for rest. By February, I’d usually find myself back in familiar patterns, feeling discouraged and convinced I had failed again.

January New Year pressure isn’t just stressful—it’s costly. It drains us at a time when restoration is actually essential.

After my spiritual awakening, I began to understand winter differently. I saw it as a season for deep rest, reflection, and gentle experimentation—not a time for rigid commitments or “hard launches.”

From that awareness, I discovered five ways to work with winter instead of against it—so we can enter the New Year feeling nourished, grounded, and supported.

1. Time your “New Year, New Me” with the lunar cycle

Lunisolar calendars—such as the traditional Chinese calendar—offer a rhythm that honors both rest and renewal. This year, Chinese New Year falls on February 17, marking the energetic shift from winter into spring. Spring is nature’s true beginning—and an ideal moment to fully commit to new goals.

When January 1st becomes a rigid deadline instead of a gentle trial phase, many resolutions collapse under pressure.

Already set a resolution? Try framing it as a six-week adoption period instead.

2. Create intentional space for stillness

Stillness gives the body time to digest subconscious emotions—an essential process for mental and emotional health, especially since much of our mind operates below conscious awareness. Extended rest supports healthier beliefs, stronger self-trust, and greater clarity.

It’s hard to envision a fulfilling year when we haven’t allowed ourselves to truly